I know it used to be common for men to pay for dates the majority of the time, but do you guys still find that to be true? My boyfriend isn't really progressive, but he lets me pay a lot of the time, or we split it. I like it to be relatively equal, but it would be nice if he offered more, especially now that he makes a lot more money than I do and has a lot less expenses. WHen I made more, I treated him more often. I feel like he is kind of cheap and that is a major turn off (he makes a lot of money, neither of us are struggling). I feel like this would be the most awkward situation in the world though to bring up so more and more I just end up paying for stuff to avoid feeling crappy when he doesn't try to pay.